I thought that all my wrongs could be forgiven, so what’s this unforgivable stuff? I have experienced forgiveness many times for many reasons. I find it hard to accept that forgiveness is withheld from anyone. Forgiveness is not always possible from another human, but always by our Higher Power. When I asked my sponsor, Lou-is Pazeniton about what’s unforgivable, he suggested that I take a look at the list on one being unwilling or unable to forgive in the Workbook Al Kohallek’s Forty-day.
- Alone is better than hurt, they will do it again
- Fear of being taken advantage of
- I don’t know how to forgive
- I can’t let go because I am seeking revenge/ They will go unpunished
- I stuffed it
- They didn’t forgive me
- A closed-mind is equal to unforgivable
- One will not forgive his or herself, that’s equals unforgivable.
Unwilling or unable to let my Higher Power do the forgiving, that’s the problem. I made up illusions of unforgivable, by grace there is no unforgivable. Once I am willing to accept that I made up this problem and that I am powerless to change it, then I turn it over to the Boss for healing or transformation into an asset.
QUESTIONS:
- Do you have any “unforgivable”?
- Would you be willing to accept that you made up the unforgivable?
- Would you be willing even for a few minutes to turn it over to the Boss, letting Him do for you what you have been unable to do?